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Thisinsightfulguideisanexplorationofhowandwhypeopleunderminetheirhappinessandlosetouchwiththeir"best"selvesCounterproductiveself-deception,auniversalbehavior,isahabitthatcanbebrokenPeoplekeepthemselvesfromhavingwhattheywant,aphenomenonknownas"self-handicapping"Offeringpoignantexamples,innovativetools,andacompassionateperspective,DanNeuharthrevealshowtovanquishself-imposedroadblocksandavoidunnecessarylossesinordertoembraceandsharethebestinoneself