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Beingunderstoodbysomeoneyouloveisoneofthemostpowerfulfeelings,atallages.Forayoungchild,itisthemostimportantofallexperiencesbecauseitallowsthechild'smindandsenseofselftogrow.InthemidstoftheperennialconcernsparentsbringtoDr.ClaudiaGold,sheshowsthemagicaleffectofseeingaproblemfromtheirchild'spointofview.Mostparentingbooksteachparentswhattodotosolvebehaviorproblems,butDr.Goldshowsparents"howtobe"withachild.Crisesaredefusedwhenchildrenfeeltrulyheardandvalidated;thisishowtheylearntounderstand,and,eventually,controlthemselves.Dr.Gold'sinsightfulguideusesnewresearchindevelopmentalpsychologyandvividstoriesfromherpracticetoshowparentshowtokeepachildinmindanddeepenthiscentralrelationshipintheirlives.