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OneofTheNewYorkTimesBookReview's10BestBooksoftheYearOnthemorningofDecember26,2004,onthesoutherncoastofSriLanka,SonaliDeraniyagalalostherparents,herhusband,andhertwoyoungsonsinthetsunamishemiraculouslysurvived.Inthisbraveandsearinglyfrankmemoir,shedescribesthosefirsthorrifyingmomentsandherlongjourneysince.Shehaswrittenanengrossing,unsentimental,beautifullypoisedaccount:asshestrugglesthroughthefirstmonthsfollowingthetragedy,furiouslyclenchedagainstarealitythatshecannotfaceandcannotdeny;andthen,overtheensuingyears,assheemergesreluctantly,slowlyallowinghermemorytotakeherbackthroughtherichandjoyouslifeshe’smourning,fromherfamily’shomeinLondon,tothebirthofherchildren,totheyearshemetherEnglishhusbandatCambridge,toherchildhoodinColombo;allthewhilelearningthedifficultbalancebetweenthealmostunbearableremindersofherlossandtheneedtokeepherfamily,somehow,stillalivewithinher.,