The Rules

Showswomen--fromteenagerstodivorceeswithchildren--thathavinghighself-esteemandfeelingsofself-sufficiencyisthebestwaytoattractthementheywant，andoffersrulesfordealingwithdating，Showswomen--fromteenagerstodivorcedmothers--howmaintaininghighself-esteemandfeelingsofself-sufficiencycanbethebestwaytoattractthementheywantandofferstipsonhowtocopewiththecomplexitiesofdating.Rerpint.，Youareacreatureunlikeanyother(Rule#1)--that'swhyyouneed...TheRules.Asimplesetofdosanddon'ts，TheRuleswillleadyoutowhereyouwanttobe：inahealthy，committedrelationship.Unliketoday'shaphazarddatingcustoms，TheRulesrecognizescertainfactsoflife.Thatmenknowwhattheywant.Thatamaniseitherattractedtoyou--ornot!Thatmenwantachallenge，notaninstantoreasyvictory.Whenyoufollowthesecommonsenseguidelines，youtreatyourselfwithrespectanddignity--anddemandthatmendolikewise.Althoughtheysoundold-fashioned("Don'tseehimmorethanonceortwiceaweek")，theyencourageyoutoleadafull，satisfying，busylife--outsideofromance.Althoughtheyseemtough("Don'ttalktoamanfirst")，theywillteachyouhowtoacceptoccasionaldefeatandmoveon.Andalthoughtheyrequirediscipline("Nomorethancasualkissingonthefirstdate")，theywillbringoutthebestinyouandinthemenyoudate.Thegoal?Marriage，intheshortesttimepossible，toamanyoulove，wholovesyouevenmorethanyoulovehim.