书目

Emotional Blackmail 情感勒索：助你成功应对人际关系中的软暴力

内容简介

"Ifyoureallylovedme...""AfterallI'vedoneforyou...""Howcanyoubesoselfish..."Doanyoftheabovesoundfamiliar?They'reallexamplesofemotionalblackmail,apowerfulformofmanipulationinwhichpeopleclosetousthreatentopunishusfornotdoingwhattheywant.Emotionalblackmailersknowhowmuchwevalueourrelationshipswiththem.Theyknowourvulnerabilitiesandourdeepestsecrets.Theyareourmothers,ourpartners,ourbossesandcoworkers,ourfriendsandourlovers.Andnomatterhowmuchtheycareaboutus,theyusethisintimateknowledgetogivethemselvesthepayofftheywant:ourcompliance.SusanForwardknowswhatpushesourhotbuttons.JustasJohnGrayilluminatesthecommunicationsgapbetweenthesexesinMenArefromMars,WomenArefromVenus,andHarrietLernerdescribesanintricatedynamicinTheDanceofAnger,soSusanForwardpresentstheanatomyofarelationshipdamagedbymanipulation,andgivesreadersanarsenaloftoolstofightback.Inherclear,no-nonsensestyle,Forwardprovidespowerful,practicalstrategiesforblackmailtargets,includingchecklists,practicescenariosandconcretecommunicationstechniquesthatwillstrengthenrelationshipsandbreaktheblackmailcycleforgood

作者简介

SusanForward,Ph.D.,isaninternationallyacclaimedtherapist,lecturer,andauthor.Herbooks--whichincludethe#1NewYorkTimesbestsellersMenWhoHateWomenandtheWomenWhoLoveThemandToxicParents,aswellasEmotionalBlackmail,ObsessiveLove,BetrayalofInnocence,andMoneyDemons--havebeentranslatedintomorethanfifteenlanguages.Inadditiontomorethantwentyyearsinprivatepractice,shehasservedasagrouptherapist,instructor,andconsultantinmanySouthernCaliforniamedicalandpsychiatricfacilities.Sheismuchsoughtafterasaguestinthemedia,andshehostedadailynationalcall-inradioprogramonABCtalkradioforsixyears.苏珊·福沃德博士是享有国际盛名的心理医师和畅销书作家，还是颇受欢迎的演说家、节目嘉宾和媒体人。她的标志性著作《恨女人的男人和爱他们的女人》精装本长踞《细约时报》畅销书排行榜第1名44周。在美国售出200万册以上，随后的著作《中毒的父母》再次荣登《纽约时报》畅销书排行傍榜首。她著作颇丰，作品已被翻译成15种文字，在全球发行。苏珊·福沃德拥有二十多年的心理治疗经验，在多家心理学机构和医学诊所担任心理医师和指导顾问，解除了无数人心灵方面的困扰。此外，由于独特的性格和出色的沟通技能，她在ABC广播频道主持过6年全国性的热线节目。

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