内容简介
Apowerful,movingmemoir—andapracticalguidetohealing—writtenbyDr.EdithEvaEger,aneminentpsychologistwhoseownexperiencesasaHolocaustsurvivorhelphertreatpatientsandallowthemtoescapetheprisonsoftheirownminds.
EdithEgerwassixteenyearsoldwhentheNaziscametoherhometowninHungaryandtookherJewishfamilytoanintermentcenterandthentoAuschwitz.HerparentsweresenttothegaschamberbyJosephMengelesoonaftertheyarrivedatthecamp.HourslaterMengeledemandedthatEdiedanceawaltzto“TheBlueDanube”andrewardedherwithaloafofbreadthatshesharedwithherfellowprisoners.ThesewomenlaterhelpedsaveEdie’slife.EdieandhersistersurvivedAuschwitz,weretransferredtotheMauthausenandGunskirchencampsinAustria,andmanagedtoliveuntiltheAmericantroopsliberatedthecampsin1945andfoundEdieinapileofdyingbodies.
OneofthefewlivingHolocaustsurvivorstorememberthehorrorsofthecamps,Ediehaschosentoforgivehercaptorsandfindjoyinherlifeeveryday.YearsaftershewasliberatedfromtheconcentrationcampsEdiewentbacktocollegetostudypsychology.Shecombinesherclinicalknowledgeandherownexperienceswithtraumatohelpotherswhohaveexperiencedpainfuleventslargeandsmall.Dr.EgerhascounselledveteranssufferingfromPTSD,womenwhowereabused,andmanyotherswholearnedthattheytoo,canchoosetoforgive,findresilience,andmoveforward.Shelecturesfrequentlyonthepowerofloveandhealing.
TheChoiceweavesEger’spersonalstorywithcasestudiesfromherworkasapsychologist.Herpatientsandtheirstoriesillustratedifferentphasesofhealingandshowhowpeoplecanchoosetoescapetheprisonstheyconstructintheirmindsandfindfreedom,regardlessofcircumstance.Eger’sstoryisaninspirationforeveryone.Andhermessageispowerfulandimportant:“Yourpainmattersandisworthhealing:youcanchoosetobejoyfulandfree.”Sheiseighty-nineyearsoldandstilldancing.