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Fewpeoplechoosetocontemplatecriticalillnessortheinevitabilityofdeathuntiltheirtimecomes.Becausepossibilitiesarerarelydiscussed,manypeopleareunpreparedorunabletomakecriticalend-of-lifedecisionsandspendtheirlastdaysinover-medicalizedandunnecessarilypainfulandprotractedsituations.Breakingfranklythroughthetabooofdiscussingdeath,HattieBryantshowsthatwehaveachoice.Inspiredbythepeacefuldeathhermotherwasalmostdenied,Bryantbegangatheringinformationfromnationalexpertsinpalliativecare,geriatrics,oncology,bio-ethics,psychology,andspirituality.IllHaveItMyWaycrediblyandpassionatelypresentsthecaseforpersonalresponsibilityinthehealthcare,legal,andproceduraldecisionsthatallofusmustmakeiftheyarenottobemadeforus.Bymakingourwishesknownandcommunicatingthemeffectively,weremovetheburdenfromourlovedonesofmakingthedeeplypersonalchoicesthatwillenableustoliveourlivesmorefullytotheend.IllHaveItMyWayprovidesusefulinformationfromexpertsthroughouthealthcare,real-lifeexamplesthatillustratetheconsequencesofdecisionsmadeornotmade,andathought-provokingguidethattakesthereaderonajourneyofdiscoverytolearnwhatalifewelllivedmeanstothem.Spoileralert:wewillalldie.ButifwefollowHattieBryantssoundadvice,ourstorycanhavetheendingthatwebelieveisbest.,Fewpeoplechoosetocontemplatecriticalillnessortheinevitabilityofdeathuntiltheirtimecomes.Becausepossibilitiesarerarelydiscussed,manypeopleareunpreparedorunabletomakecriticalend-of-lifedecisionsandspendtheirlastdaysinover-medicalizedandunnecessarilypainfulandprotractedsituations.Breakingfranklythroughthetabooofdiscussingdeath,HattieBryantshowsthatwehaveachoice.Inspiredbythepeacefuldeathhermotherwasalmostdenied,Bryantbegangatheringinformationfromnationalexpertsinpalliativecare,geriatrics,oncology,bio-ethics,psychology,andspirituality.IllHaveItMyWaycrediblyandpassionatelypresentsthecaseforpersonalresponsibilityinthehealthcare,legal,andproceduraldecisionsthatallofusmustmakeiftheyarenottobemadeforus.Bymakingourwishesknownandcommunicatingthemeffectively,weremovetheburdenfromourlovedonesofmakingthedeeplypersonalchoicesthatwillenableustoliveourlivesmorefullytotheend.IllHaveItMyWayprovidesusefulinformationfromexpertsthroughouthealthcare,real-lifeexamplesthatillustratetheconsequencesofdecisionsmadeornotmade,andathought-provokingguidethattakesthereaderonajourneyofdiscoverytolearnwhatalifewelllivedmeanstothem.Spoileralert:wewillalldie.ButifwefollowHattieBryantssoundadvice,ourstorycanhavetheendingthatwebelieveisbest.