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ATELLISANACTIONTHATTELLSYOUWHATSOMEONEISTHINKING,EVENIFTHATPERSONDOESN'TKNOWITTHEMSELVES.ANDTELLSAREHIGHLYINFORMATIVE...Thewayyoustandwhenyou'retalkingtoothers,howyoumoveyourfeet,yourhands,youreyes-evenyoureyebrows-saysalotaboutyourcommitmenttoaconversationandyourunderlyingattitude.Youractionsandstancecanalsoaffecthowlongyougettotalkandhowoftenyougetinterrupted.Evenwhenyou'reseated,thepositionofyourarmsandlegsprovidesawealthofinformationaboutyourmoodandintentions,showingwhetheryoufeeldominantorsubmissive,preoccupiedorbored.ButTellsaren'tconfinedmerelytoconversations;whenyouarealoneyouareconstantlyshiftingyourbody-andeachmovement,eachgestureprovidescluesaboutyourstateofmind.Inthisilluminatingbook,PeterCollett,socialpsychologist,formerOxforddonandBigBrother'sresidentpsychologist,introducesustothefascinatingconceptofTells,showinghowtheywork,wheretheycomefromandhowtoidentifyanditerpretthem.Whilstsentizingreaderstothemotivesandactionsofotherpeople,thisinvaluableguidealsofocusesonthemessagesthatweunwittinglysend,andtheimpactthatthesemighthaveonthosearoundus.Comprehensiveandaccessibleinitsapproach,andwritteninthetraditionoftheinternationalbestseller,Manwatching,THEBOOKOFTELLSoffersanew,unifyingvocabularyforunderstandinghumancommunicationandsocialinfluence-andauniqueopportunitytoreadyourself,andothers.