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Friendscanhelptoformthebasicstructureofourlivesbutweveryoftentakethemforgranted.Friendscansometimesberegardedasanoppressiveburdenwhentheyappeartobegreedilydemandingtoomuchofus.Howtogetthebalancerightisaperennialconcernandthesubjectofmuchfictionanddrama.Buthasthisalwaysbeenthecaseoristhenatureandmeaningoffriendshipchangingincontemporarysociety?RayPahlexplorestheseissuesaswellasdiscussingwhoneedsfriendsmostandwhen,howfriendsmakeusthepeoplethatweareandwhetherfriendshipisanewmetaphorformorality.PahlbringsrefreshingnewinsightstoaformofrelationshipthathaschangedinitsmeaningandsignificancesincetheclassicaldiscussionbyAristotle.Drawingonawiderangeofmaterial,includinghistory,philosophy,psychologyandsociology,hefocusesitintodistinctiveshaftsoflightwhichilluminatedifferentaspectsofthisrichandmulti-facetedtopic.Understandingfriendshipisimportantattheprivatelevel,aswestrugglewiththeproblemofpersonalidentityinakaleidoscopicworld,andalsoatthepubliclevelwhereinappropriatefriendshipemergesascronyismorsubtlevarietiesofpoliticalcorruption.Thisaccessiblejargon-freebookwillappealtoawidereadership,sinceitdoesmuchtoilluminateafascinatingtopicatmanydifferentlevels.